Let’s Talk About: Dry Humping

There’s a lot of taboo and humor around dry humping. People think of it as a beginners action, something only for people refraining from premarital sex, or just something of myth that only happens in jokes. Well, though some of those things are true, it doesn’t have to stop there. Dry humping is very much a real thing that can happen in all stages of a relationship, for many reasons, and with a whole lot of pleasure.  

By definition, dry humping is a type of non-penetrative, or “outercourse,” wherein you and a partner have genital to genital contact with clothes on. You gently or roughly hump each other to any point of arousal, including orgasm if you wish so. It sounds a little awkward right? It is, I suppose. That may be why people write it off so quickly. But I think silly to miss out on an opportunity like dry humping. Surely, everyone has their preferences, and you might not be into it, but I think that dry humping can be an incredibly sexy prelude to sex, or another form of sex to enjoy all together. There’s a lot of anticipation build up, and for things to work you’ve got to be very close together for everything to work, resulting in some pretty hot & heavy stuff. It’s great if you’re not ready to have penetrative sex, or go for hands on parts yet. Plus, there is a whole lot of benefits to dry humping. Always remember what Dr. Lindsey Doe’s button says! maxresdefaultWith clothes on, no genitals exposed to each other, you’ve got your own form of contraception and protection right there. Don’t forget that clothes aren’t exactly a steel barrier though, if one of you has a penis and is about to ejaculate, pull away to do so, just to be safe about where the semen ends up. But, there’s no need for condoms because nothing exposed, you’re pretty solidly protected from anything going on. However, the pleasure is still all there for you to enjoy. The pressure & friction feel fantastic on the clitoris, and can also be extremely stimulating against an erection. Find a position that works for the both of you, where you can get your stuff as close to each other as possible. Dry humping is all about the hips. Get in comfortable position where you both can move your hips in sync. Vary the positions, most positions you would use for sex will also work great for dry humping. If you’re confused about exactly what to do, don’t be afraid to use the side of a bed or couch to figure out exactly how dry humping can work. Then you’ll be prepared to get right to it with a partner. Be forgiving, just like any sexual activity, things can be a little awkward. With some patience and passion, you’ll be right on your way to dry hump heaven.

So, get your head out of the mentality that dry humping is just a silly thing that preteens do. Sure, it can be, but it can also be an extra hot change up from penetrative sex or a sexy foreplay into other activity. Get some friction going and see what kind of places dry humping can lead you.

Have fun and be safe!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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