Let’s Talk About: Finding the Right Dildo for You

Funtoys_vibrators_byfunfactory61The world of sex toys can be awfully intimidating. Dildos are among the most commonly used, but that doesn’t make them any less overwhelming to learn about or look for than any other toys. There’s so much variety when it comes to dildos, which can seem daunting, but really, that’s the beauty of it. There’s a dildo out there to suit your needs exactly, you’ve just got to know where to start.

The place to start is the basics of a safe toy. You want to find a dildo that is made from great, safe material. This means that the toy will be phthalate (pronounced “thay-late”) free, and non-porous. Phthalates are chemicals that are sometimes in plastic that are no good for our bodies, so of course, we don’t want to be using those during sex. You also don’t want pores in your toys, because dirt & body fluids can get within the pores, and stay in there even after cleaning. No, thank you. Luckily, those two things usually come hand in hand with toys. The types of materials that you want your dildo to be made from are silicone, Borosilicate glass, stainless steel, or wood. If you must get a plastic toy, make sure it’s made from ABS plastic. No jelly dildos. I recommend silicone more than anything. It’s reliable, easy to clean, and has the best feel to it when it comes to the sex itself. dildosSo now, you’ve studied up on your materials, next is to find what type of dildo will best suit you or your partners needs. To do so, you need to have a little meeting with your vagina or anus. Talk about what it likes, what feels best, or any special treatment it needs to feel the right pleasure. Think about how much penetration you like or can handle. If you’re new to penetration, whether it be vaginal or anal, start with something smaller to ease into penetrative sex. If you like lots of penetration, look for something longer, or with a bit more girth. If regular penetration alone doesn’t make you feel all that you’d like to, try looking for a dildo with specific g-spot stimulation, or one that vibrates. Note that a vibrating dildo and a vibrator are different toys. Vibrators have a motor within them, and they are specifically meant to vibrate. Vibrating dildos are usually an average sort of dildo, that come with an insertable mini-vibe that you can go with or without, depending on your mood. There are dildos that are designed to be better for self-use rather than partner controlled, and there are dildos made specifically for partner play, where both you and your partner can be penetrated at the same time, referred to as double-dildos. It all depends on what you like. That’s the beauty of dildos. It’s one sex toy, modified hundreds of times to suit the many needs of many different people. If you’re still feeling a bit lost on what you might like best, Babeland has got you covered.

Out in the great, wild, humongous world of sex toys, there’s the dildo right for you. Do your research, take your time, and don’t be afraid to try something out if you’re not sure. You may have absolutely no clue at all what you like, and that’s totally okay, too. Try some styles out, take the time to really see how your body responds, and if it doesn’t work out, no worries. There’s plenty of different dildos out there for you to try & meet your match. Just remember to be safe and know what you’re putting in your body. I swear sex with toys feels even better when you know you’re using something that is carefully researched, hand picked, and safe.

Happy hunting!

 

 

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